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How will RelationshipSolver.com help you?

My aim is to help you to learn new ways of dealing with the kinds of problems that crop up every day; problems which if repeated day after day may undermine the foundations of the relationship and can lead to separation.

The focus is on the practical side, and wherever problems are mentioned I have tried to suggest a possible solution. You may well find that some of the relationship problem descriptions and case examples remind you of difficulties you have had in your own relationship, and that you can use them to give you ideas for new ways of dealing with them.

You may also find that the problems and the couples I refer to will trigger an emotional response, perhaps one of anger or one of sympathy or sadness. This could hopefully act as the stimulus for you to do something about the problems in your own relationship which have caused that emotional response.

How should you read the articles on this site?

At the first reading, you will probably be sitting quietly on your own. But this means that, if you have a partner, only half of the relationship is getting the information, and it would be good to share the ideas with your partner as soon as you are able to do so. In fact, you could try reading it together, perhaps even printing a copy each for the purpose! Even if only one of you is reading it, you could share the ideas with your partner. You could have a kind of brainstorming session to discuss them, and try some of the exercises together.

Sometimes of course the person reading the book will have a partner who won’t get involved in discussing the relationship. You could still read it yourself; making use of the suggestions for those working unilaterally to improve their relationship, and things might get better as a result. The articles on this site don’t need to be read completely, unless you choose to do so.

You can select which part to start with, so that you can follow your interest in a particular field through different articles.